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Saturday, March 14, 2015

Family Togetherness is more important than Get Together sometimes


That day was Badi Diwali in 2011.

It was just the dawn. The colony was looking damn bright and beautiful. The colorful zig zag lights in each house, the warm light falling on the straight rows of the trees, and the chirping sound of the birds, all were making an embellished atmosphere all around.

Leena already put all the gift packets ready for the evening. She kept all the dresses ready too. Leena would wear a Red Banarasi Saree with golden sleeveless blouse, Sumit would wear a light green silk Kurta with jeans and they bought a cute Red kurta with white pyjama for their one and only son Piklu.

Piklu was extremely excited with his crackers, which his dad bought for him in the morning. The previous day, they went to their close friend Anu’s house to play cards. It was a real fun. As Diwali has its emphasis on money, gambling is considered lucky game. A popular saying states that one who does not gamble on this very day will reborn as a donkey in the next birth. So, Leena did not want to take a chance to reborn as a donkey.

It was their first Diwali in this house. Not house, it’s their home. Their own home, which they bought through Housing.com. It was just three months, they had moved to their apartment. So, the couple wanted to brighten up every corner. Leena painted a beautiful rangoli, decorated the entrance with flowers and colourful lights. Few lights they hanged in the balconies too. The trio was spending best time with each other since morning doing all these decoration, complementing each other.




Sumit was all set with his camera too. Photography was his hobby. 

Beep! Beep! Sumit’s mobile buzzed suddenly. Somebody was wishing Happy Diwali from other side probably, as she could hear him saying “Thank you. Thank you.”

Keeping the phone, Sumit said that he needed to go to meet some of his school mates urgently. He would be back in one hour. He asked both of them to be ready by then and planned to go to the open area to do the fireworks and also start sharing sweets and gifts.

Though Piklu did not like his dad going out in this hour, he did not stop as he was a big boy now. 6 years old boy. Both Mom and Beta dressed up well,  lit the diyas and candles. The aroma of the diyas and the scented candles was giving a divine touch to all the rooms and surroundings.

One hour was over. Colony’s crowd started their fireworks. Gradually, the night sky came alive with the glitter of firecrackers. Leena and Piklu kept watching the spectacular and bedazzling Diwali scenario.

Leena picked up her phone and dialed Sumit’s number. But he did not pick up. 

Piklu’s friends were calling from the ground floor, he became restless. At last, Leena took the lock and key, picked few gifts and sweets, and went downstairs thinking that Sumit would surely call her up once he reached home.  She did not actually want to lock the house as mythology says, one should not close the door on Diwali evening as Luxmi mata visits every house.

Time was passing. Leena kept calling Sumit in between. He did not pick up the call.

11 PM. Leena and Piklu came up. She had to give artificial smile to all of his neighbors, had to answer to all where was Sumit. She was a bit tensed now. He never did like this. Almost everytime, he kept the promise….Sumit even did not tell her the names, to whom he had gone to meet.

12 PM. Piklu slept. He was a bit tired. Leena was really tensed now. She could not think of calling up her parents nor parents in law, as they would be nervous. 

She thought whether she should approach Police. But she did not have any faith in Indian police. She did not know many people in the society too. 

She kept calling….Now it was switch off. Till now, she called up at least 100 times.

What to do now. She was really confused…but at last thought she would wait till morning. 

She just sat on the bed, beside Piklu, kept her eyes and ears alert, kept peeping through the window as the entrance gate was somewhat visible from her bed room …….thousands of thoughts kept disturbing  her mind. 

At around 4 PM. She could see two cars stopping near the entry gate. Two guys came down from the car and talked to the guards. Leena had an intuition, her heart started aching, could smell some unexpected bad news…..The cars entered the colony. She was expecting to hear the calling bell in few minutes, though she was not sure about anything.

Crii..ii…ng………Her guess was right……

She ran like a chitah…to open the door…..

There were four men standing there…….She was all set to hear a bed news from them……Her eyes filled with water in fraction of a second……………..

“We are Sorry Bhabi….Sumit is completely drunk ……It’s not his fault……”One man said.

“Actually, we are his school mates, we had a surprise card and drink party. Some of us pressurised him to drink. He became uncontrollable initially as he is a non-drinker” Another added……

Leena had no word to say anything….….He could see Sumit coming front from their back with a guilty gesture.

“I am sorry Leenu………I will never ever do like this again…..I did not know how I got badly immersed in playing cards….and kept drinking….” Sumit tried to convince Leena….though his words were still a bit un-clear.

Leena just hugged him….tight….

“I will never leave you guys alone in this way…….I am sorry Leenu…” He started weeping like a baby.

Saying bye to his friends……Sumit directly went to the bed room…..looking for Piklu…..He kissed him on his forehead, saying… “I am sorry Beta….I promise, I will not leave you and your mom in this kind of situation. I understand what I missed today....”, he pulled Leena too, being extremely emotional.

Leena thanked God for taking him back safe and his realization.

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Friday, March 13, 2015

Me Time



“Please leave me alone! Let me have some ‘Me Time’!”  

“I need some ‘Me Time’ plzzzz!!!!” 

Have you ever come across this kind of situation? If not, you should, you will….’coz, Urbanization is voguish everywhere…

Does not matter, if you have a beautiful girlfriend, handsome boyfriend or a happy family and life's going on smoothly ; anyone of us can have ‘Me Time’.

‘Me’ is you and ‘Me Time’ means your time.  There are many benefits of ‘Me time’. It's good for all of us if we use properly. Taking time of ourselves imparts psychological and physical benefits. If you give yourself a break, you'll feel refreshed and happier. If you focus on any activity which you enjoy, stress levels go down and you have time to recharge the batteries.

Specially, if you are angry with your Spouse, irritated by your kidoo or mother-in-law, or bored of your monotonous life, then, surely you should opt for ‘Me Time’.  Take a break, stop all whatever you are doing. Sit down in some peaceful place (as now a days, there is no Roh Ghar) like your room, cafe, park or anywhere you know you will not be disturbed. Question yourself "what activity will make me feel good?". It may be that you like painting, reading, shopping, jogging, meditation, writing blogs, poems, or any other relaxation activity you may enjoy. 

For Mums, or working women, after taking care of the family, busy day work, childcare, there never seems to be enough time left for themselves. Me time can rejuvenate her…We all need to cut ourselves some slack for the sake of our sanity.

For men too, when they have me time, they can lose themselves in what they are doing and celebrate themselves. But, should keep in mind that me time does not mean to sleep and look at the Whatsapp messages or browsing meaningless websites. In that case, ‘Your time’ or ‘Family time’ will be better than ‘Me time’.

What’s say?

Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Life is a route, start afresh when needed



“Please do not throw them out Mom.” 

“Why not? Your room is extremely cluttered.” Mom shouted.

“These are the last few things left out, I want to keep them with me.” I could not keep my eye drops blocked anymore.

“You will have to leave them, my love. These all are past now. Don’t ever look back….whole life is lying in front of you ….start a new life, do a new beginning ….all joy awaits you….” Mom tried to make me understand caressing my hair.   

“Tomorrow Rohan’s family members will be coming to see you. Change your mood. Think life afresh.” She added. 

Yes, it’s been just a year now, when life took an unexpected turn, when the destiny imparted me some misery, from which it is still tough to get to my feet. 

It was 5th March last year. Light, colours, ornaments, decoration everywhere. Full masti was going on in the wedding mandap. I was truly excited as my 10 years of affair with Raj would get a permanent name and designation; as if the time was passing very slowly that day. Because of the guests, friends, and family members, it was becoming damn difficult to talk to Raj on phone. Last two days before the wedding, we decided not to talk much anyways. I was just desperately waiting for his arrival at my home….to the moment he would put sindur on my head and take me along as his bride.


Punditjee informed us that the auspicious moment for the exchanging the vows was between 10 pm till  11:30 pm. So, both the parties had decided that the bridegroom would arrive at the mandap at 10 pm sharp. Raj’s house was 100 kilometers away from my home.

Since the evening, I was just looking at the watch in every half an hour.

It was 9:30 pm. The harmony of ladies sangeet was enthralling the atmosphere.

10 pm, 10:30 pm…No one from bridegroom side arrived. All started feeling uneasy gradually…..specially my Mom, she was a bit apprehensive and was just blabbering, “How irresponsible people…!!!” Probably she was embarrassed in front of our relatives.  I was really angry on Raj how come he could become so careless while he always used to reach the venue of dating before time.

11 pm. I called up at his mobile. It was just ringing, he did not pick up. I got scared. I called up atleast 40 times. I called up his cousin…..he also did not pick up my call. 

In few minutes, all people gathered around me…….I just heard somebody saying, “There is an accident…..Raj is no more…………..”

That’s all. All finished……for me. I did not know how many days I was in the hospital…..My sister, my Mom, Dad and aunt…all took me home one day……Since then the stuff like Raj’s photograph, things he gifted me, the letters he wrote to me, all became my best comrade.

But how long would I mourn in this way!! My family members, Raj’s Mom and Dad all have been trying to make me understand that this was not the end of my life. The whole life is lying in front of me.

One of my best buddies in school, also a very good friend of Raj, Rohan expressed his willingness to marry me. I knew he had a soft corner for me before I felt in love with Raj. He is settled in US now. His parents and family members would come to my home to see me tomorrow. 

Thinking for many weeks, looking at the faces of my parents, my well-wishers, I tried to console myself that no one can change the destiny. My mind said, “So go ahead. No more whine. Life is a route one wanna keep going…” I decided to say yes to Rohan’s proposal, and start a new life.

I handed over to my mom the last reminiscence of Raj, his photograph with a divine smile, “I want to embark a new beginning Mom!”

My mom hugged me tight. I could feel few warm drops of water on my shoulder. I was determined. 





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