"আই লৈ যেই হাত বাই লৈ ও হেই হাত "
Do you remember any incident while you and your friends went to someone’s home from hostel to grab some homely food and before serving you food, the host entertained you with their kidoo’s performance….? I have many....such as.....
“Beta sing Twinkle
Twinkle Little Star in front of Didi!”
The little sings ‘Twinkle,
Twinkle Little Star’ with different lovely poses…and the mom’s face gradually keeps
glowing with happiness and charm.
Once the Twinkle
finishes twinkling, the mom again asks the kidoo to sing “Baa, Baa, Black
Sheep….” And he starts singing….. And the list goes on…….
…..And your jaws are wide
open, trying to show your artificial smile….in the core of your heart, you are
thinking, “Arre enough yaar! All babies look cute while singing or dancing…what
a big issue! Stop making me bored plzzzz!!!”
I bet, if you did not
face or come across this kind situation and feeling in your life, before you
become parents, may be in your college days, university days or when u never
planned for a kid…
Some more common
incidents infact…:
If you see some kids
playing with a mobile, you will think what kind of irresponsible parents they
are, to allow kids to play with gadget. And you tell your hubby that you would never
give a gadget to your kid at such a small age…
“What kind of people
they are….keeping the home sooo dirty!! Can’t even manage the kid…” Hope, you
never think or thought like this unlike me, when I used to see a messy house
and the kid was uncontrollably running here and there continuously.
I even thought to
some great heights….When some moms used to discuss with me about the school fee
and shared her worries about the admission, education system….I used to say
with determination that I would never ever give my child’s admission in such
costly schools….I even planned to opt for Municipality school.
But, what! When I became Mom…..I became different…I feel
like asking my Kidoo to recite some rhymes in front of others…My son learnt
some Shloka recently, I did the videos and now I feel like sharing those with
my friends, colleagues, family members. My home becomes messy when he and his
friends play with toys, cars, puzzles…..I feel sooo happy to see the messy
house.
My son now has
expertise in opening Youtube, Games, Browsers to see cartoons or games…..Infact, when I
am busy in a call, or talking with others in some important matters, I
willingly give my mobile phone to play or watch videos…..And above all, I never even
thought of Municipality school in the time of admission…..
Gosh!!! What’s
happening with Meeh!!!! What a transformation!!!
The other day, one of
my cousins who is doing his graduation here, came home for a day. And proudy
Mommy in me compelled me to ask my son to sing 10 lines of Hanuman Chalisa in
front of him…..But looking at my cousin’s face and expression, I recalled those incidents when
I faced the same long back and could not gather courage to ask my son to recite
some more. :)
Recently, my another young cousin met a bike accident. He is too young to ride a bike….he has just
passed matriculation. Another young cousin is carrying a mobile phone worth Rs.
30k in his early age. I was furious and angry on my uncle and aunt and just thought of asking them why they have given them whatever they demanded; I just told my hubby,
that I would never give a bike and costly mobile phone till he completes his
graduation…… But, then, I thought/ wondered……..what will I have to face when my
child will be of their age…..
So, that’s why guys…I
started loving and following the saying of T.S Eliot :
“Time
present and time past
Are
both perhaps present in time future
And
time future contained in time past.”
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